Me vs. Collector — The Blog

Plain-English guides
for people getting harassed.

FDCPA rights explained. Common violations broken down. Step-by-step strategies for fighting back — written for someone getting calls at midnight, not a law school classroom.

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Violation
They Called My Boss After I Asked Them to Stop. Is That Illegal?

Workplace harassment after notice is a clear FDCPA violation — and one of the easiest to prove. Here's exactly what the law says and how to document it.

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Strategy
How to Write a Cease-and-Desist Letter That Actually Works

A written stop-contact request creates a legal obligation. But the wording matters. Here's the template and the common mistakes that accidentally waive your rights.

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Violation
They Called Me 11 Times This Week. The Law Has an Exact Number.

The CFPB's 2021 Regulation F created a bright-line rule: 7 calls in 7 days. If they crossed it, that's a federal violation with a paper trail in your phone records.

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Lawsuit
How Suing a Debt Collector Works — Even If You've Never Been to Court

A step-by-step look at the FDCPA lawsuit process: finding an attorney, the free consultation, how cases typically resolve, and what the timeline looks like.

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Debt Types
Medical Debt and the FDCPA: Special Rules Collectors Hope You Don't Know

Medical debt has unique protections — from credit reporting rules to validation requirements. Collectors violate these constantly. Here's what applies to your situation.

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Strategy
How to Demand Debt Validation — and What to Do When They Can't Prove It

Within 30 days of first contact, you can force a collector to prove the debt is yours and the amount is accurate. Most people never ask. Here's the letter and what happens next.

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Violation
The Statute of Limitations on Debt: Why Collectors Pray You Don't Ask

Every debt expires for legal purposes. Threatening to sue on time-barred debt is potentially illegal. Here's how to find out if your debt is past the limit — by state.

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State Laws
FDCPA vs. State Laws: Many States Give You Even More Protection

The FDCPA is a federal floor — many states have built additional protections on top. California, New York, and Texas all have stronger rules. Here's the full breakdown.

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